Meet Jules — my journey into counselling and therapy

I believe that healing begins when we no longer feel we have to carry everything on our own.

For over 30 years, I've worked alongside people in community wellbeing, creative spaces, and supportive environments. The thread running through all of my work has always been people; our stories, the ways we learn to cope, how we make sense of our experiences, how we can create meaningful connections, what helps us feel truly seen, heard, and a little less alone.

Alongside my professional training and work, I bring lived experience of neurodivergence and the impact of many of lifes difficult challenges and transitions which led me into my own personal therapy. These experiences have deepened my understanding that there is nothing "wrong" with us. So often, the struggles we carry are understandable responses to what we've lived through, the relationships we've experienced, the environments and systems we've had to navigate.

At the heart of all my counselling and therapeutic work is an idea that has stayed with me for many years: Creating a Home Within.

For me, Creating a Home Within is the gentle process of finding your way back to yourself. It's about learning to create a sense of inner safety, trust, and self-compassion after perhaps spending years surviving, coping, looking after everyone else, or putting your own needs to one side.

Many of us become so used to holding everything together that we lose touch with who we are beneath the stress, expectations, trauma, or responsibilities we've been carrying. Together, we gently explore what has helped you survive, while creating space for new ways of caring for yourself that feel kinder, steadier, and more sustainable. .

When I’m not working

When I’m not working, I’m usually leaning into all things cosy; a cheesy cosy crime dramas, getting lost in a good book and the peace of a silent book club, afternoon naps, singing with my choir, Qi gong in the park, Yin yoga, and anything that helps life feel a little softer and slower.

Give me a cheese toastie, a big chunky jumper, hot chilli chocolate, and a candle flickering away, and I’m very content.

Creating a Home Within isn’t just something I offer through my work, it’s something I’m continually learning to create for myself too. For me, it’s about listening to what I need, making space for rest, joy and lifes glimmers, feeling connected to my body, and allowing all the different parts of me to have a place to belong.

I’ve also got a playful, slightly wilder parts that still loves to come out now and then, whether that’s releasing my inner warrior in a women’s drumming circle, strength training, air guitaring like nobody’s watching, or heading into the woods and letting that freer, untamed part of me breathe a little.

l welcome all my parts, the cosy ones, quiet introverted ones, the challenging parts, the sad parts and the wild, joyful ones. They are all part of being human, and all part of coming home to myself.

 

What I hope for you

My hope is to co-create a space with you where you feel empowered to go at your own pace and hold control over what we explore. Where we can build up trust together and to feel heard and to work towards a felt sense of safety.

Many people come to work with me, carrying stress, overwhelm, self-doubt, or the feeling that they have to cope with everything alone, I aim to offer a space where you can pause, breathe, and feel supported without judgement.

Over time, my hope for you is you are able to feel more connected to yourself, more compassionate towards your experiences, and better able to understand thoughts, emotions, and needs, building greater self-trust, emotional resilience, and a stronger sense of wellbeing in your everyday life.

Information

Previous Training and Courses

  • Level 4 Integrative Counselling
  • IFS- Informed Somatic Parts Work Certificate
  • IFS-Informed Somatic Trauma Therapy Certificate
  • Foundation Certificate in Somatic Trauma Theory
  • Specialised Estrangement Training with Karl Melvin
  • Grief Counselling
  • Recovery Coaching,
  • Neurodiversity Coaching 
  • Somatic & Mindfulness Coaching
  • Mindfulness one to one- Bangor University
  • Various Yoga Teacher Trainings-inc Hatha, Yin, Yoga Nidra, Accessible Yoga, Teen Yoga

Currently Training in-

  • Trauma-Informed Creative Practice for Counsellors
  • About to embark in training as a Somatic Trauma Therapist

Professional Memberships & Ongoing Development

I am committed to providing ethical, inclusive, and professional counselling practice.

I am a member of the NCPS -Membership Number NCPS6640

 NCPS - the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society. It is a major professional membership body for counsellors and psychotherapists that sets ethical standards and maintains an Accredited Profesional Register.

I am  a member of The Creative Counsellors CIC that supports Counsellors offers an inclusive and diverse counselling experience that integrates the mind, body, feelings and spirituality with creativity. 

To support the quality of my work, I attend personal therapy, one to one clinical supervision, Peer Supervision. I engage in regular Continuing Professional Development (CPD) and specialist training. This helps me to continue developing my knowledge, skills, and practice while ensuring that the support I offer remains safe, reflective, and responsive to the needs of my clients.

Take the first step towards feeling heard, supported, and understood. Contact  me to learn more, book a 20 minute Free consultation or to book your initial session.

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